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NegativityWhenever you are shocked, taken aback, upset, angry, lost, sad, emotional, irrational, TELL YOURSELF, "Self, there has to be some other explanation". Change your mind. There is always a better thought! Tell yourself anything that makes you a happy productive person. Your thoughts are under YOUR contol, or at the very least, they can be. Find out what you need to be a happy productive person. DeathIs a certain mindset inherent to those who die, based on how they lived? Those who want to die do not seam to be afforded a bold tragedy or quick painless death. Those who do not care one way or the other, but hope and be and do everything the best they can, so that they will be spared in the nicest way.....are.
The way someone dies may be the actual visible measure of someone's invisible success. Die slowly if evil more than good occurred in your lifetime, and die quickly and painlessly for those that blessed more than took. Of course that would leave everyone in between with a death equivalent to the life they either respected or didn't.
HappinessIt's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. So remind yourself everyday that you are lucky to have it, because any moment it may be gone. And even though once it was your choice, one day it won't be.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes their way. Because only then can they live without regret if they have lived each day to the fullest trying their hardest.
Accept the things you don't want to happen will, if you can accept this, it won't bother you when it happens.
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